Delhi Diary : Small town girl makes her way to the Capital of the country!

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Let me start by telling you about myself.

Hello, my name is Vidisha Kaithal. I’m born and brought up in a small and not so fancy city Allahabad, India. I have recently got admission in a college of Delhi and that’s what brought me to dilwalo ki dilli!

Ever since I had an idea about going to college, I always wanted to have one in Delhi. Delhi has always been my first love, afterall where will you find such an amazing mocktail of history, present and future!

I’ve been here a few times before but then, things were different. I was with my parents, which meant that I didn’t had to worry about anything. I knew that I would get the best possible facilities. Also, I was a kid back then so the tall buildings and zig zag going flyovers just amazed me and that feeling stuck with me to this date.

In my city, Allahabad, I always had this constant pressure to live, behave and do certain things which were approved by certain people. Since all my energies and curiosities were boxed I turned into an introvert. And when I used to be in Delhi, I observed that no body interferes in others life. One can do whatever she/he wants to do, right or wrong. The most important thing was that I could finally take my own decisions!

So before the cut offs were announced, I had little hope that I could make it due to several reasons.

  • I had not scored as I had planned.
  • My family had second thoughts about sending me to an alien place where I had to manage everything from scratch.
  • It is DELHI. It’s believed to be an unsafe place for girls.

I had applied in many colleges and got call back from several of them. One college was a prestigious girls private college from Jaipur. It was good, really good in terms of education. The campus had all sorts of facilities like swimming pool, tennis court etc. One can learn horse riding, shooting and what not. It was built in such a way that one doesn’t needs to go out of the campus. It had restaurants, markets from where you can get anything. Literally anything. My only problem was that the college provided too much security to girls.

I know it’s really good considering the outside world, but I wanted to face the “outside world “. I did not wanted this controlled and protected environment because I was already getting it at home. I want to explore how the world actually functions and interact with different kinds of interesting people and know their stories. I want to explore myself, find what I truly enjoy and make my own way to achieve my dreams. I want to grow up into a confident woman who is always ready to face any problem. And all this is possible only if I could be in Delhi, away from my parent’s shelter!

Since I had little hope to get into that specific college, and also because of my parent’s confused state of mind, I decided to take a solo trip to DELHI from ALLAHABAD.

I was travelled alone for the very first time. I had never even went to a market alone and here was I sitting in train and ready to go to Delhi. Those two days and a night trip was the best trip ever! I wish I could tell what all happened! 😉

Four days later , on 19/6/18, first cut off was released and on that night itself I went back to Delhi and on 20/6/18 I took admission in my dream place/college.

So I can conclude that I didn’t chose the college, I chose the city. Because in both the colleges I was getting my subjects i.e. psychology.

Now a new life, new adventure and lots of drama is waiting for me. After 10 days approximately, I’ll enter in a life which won’t be any less than a reality show! I hope all this takes me to my goal.😇

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Know my real time madness in super fancy place from my instagram – @vidishakaithal

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3 Day Quote Challenge #Day2

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SalaamAlaikum! I hope everyone had a blast on eid-ul-fitr! So, I’ve been nominated for “3 day quotes challenge”,  and it’s day 2. Let’s do it-

RULES FOR THE QUOTES Challenge:

1.Thank the blogger who nominated you.

2.Post 1-3 quotes a day for 3 consecutive day.

3.Nominate 3 bloggers each day.

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Thank you My valiant soul for nominating me and giving me an opportunity to spread positive vibes. Everyone please check her blog and let her know how amazing she is!

The category for my today’s quote will be Patriotism :

Patriotism is your conviction that this country is superior to all other countries because you were born in it.

George Bernard Shaw(1856-1950) Irish writer.

There might be many countries superior to yours but instead of complaining, accept all the flaws and work to overcome them.

Who saves his country violates no law.

Napoleon I(1769-1821) Napoleon Bonaparte. French general.

Rules for the betterment should never be violated. They are made not only for the country but also for you too!

If yet your blood does not rage, then it is water that flows in your veins. For what is the flush of youth, if it is not of service to the motherland.

Chandra Shekhar Azad (freedom fighter,India)

Patriotism doesn’t need to be shown, it is a feeling that needs to be felt!

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I would like to nominate:

Srijan.

ankian

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3 Day Quote Challenge #Day1

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Namestey! So, I’ve been nominated for “3 day quotes challenge”,  and I am so excited to participate. Let’s do it:

RULES FOR THE QUOTES Challenge:

1.Thank the blogger who nominated you.

2.Post 1-3 quotes a day for 3 consecutive day.

3.Nominate 3 bloggers each day.

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I would like to thank My valiant soul for nominating me and giving me an opportunity to spread positive vibes. Everyone please check her blog and let her know how amazing she is!

The category for my today’s quote will be Colours:

1: I could compare my music to white light which contains all colours. Only a prism can divide the colours and make them appear; this prism could be the spirit of the listener.
-Arvo Part
Like music, colours also come with emotions. Colours travel everywhere and are accepted by everyone and all are equally important! Most important attribute is that all work together to make our world beautiful!

2:”I have a dream that one day little black boys and girls will be holding hands with little white boys and girls.”

-Martin Luther King Jr

Colors are often misinterpreted by homo sapiens. They make it a label. They add additional meanings to it. A particular colour on skin is no label of superiority or inferiority. 

3: “If colours are honesty then shades of colours are magnitudes of honesty. Every colour is beautiful not shade.”

-Vidisha Kaithal

All in all, honesty is always appreciated. Half truth is equal to lie. Illusions must not be created.
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I would like to nominate:
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